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Robert Diefenderfer

Robert E. Diefenderfer

Friday, May 20th, 1927 - Wednesday, April 14th, 2021
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Robert E. Diefenderfer, 93, of Exeter Township, passed away on Wednesday, April 14, 2021, at his home surrounded by his family members. He was the husband of Faye (Kauffman) Diefenderfer, Exeter Township, with whom he celebrated 69 years of marriage. Born in Reading, Pennsylvania, he was the son of the late Frank and Ruth (Squibb) Diefenderfer. Bob graduated from Mt Penn High School class of 1945, and then attended Reading Business Institute. He owned and operated Esterly Cont., DB Diefenderfer, Laurel Lanes and Exeter Supply. He was an avid trapshooter, bowler, and member of the South End Gun Club.

In addition to his wife, Bob is survived by sons David D. of New Jersey, Jeffrey husband of Mary Lou, St. Lawrence, and Robert husband of Lori, Muhlenberg. He has five grandsons Jason, Craig, John, Mark, Jordan, and five great-grandchildren. Bob was predeceased by his sister Jane (Diefenderfer) Bossler.

Services are private, interment will be held at Forest Hills Memorial Park. Lutz Funeral Home, Inc. 2100 Perkiomen Avenue Reading, Pa 19606 is in charge of arrangements. For online condolences, please visit
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    Forest Hills Memorial Park
    391 W. Neversink Road
    Exeter Township, PA
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Mary Lou Diefenderfer

Posted at 02:45pm
Wednesday Pop earned his Angel wings and went straight to his new home Heaven. He lived a long life here on earth 93 years not many people can say that. But out of all his life achievements his family was always came first. He was a good Husband, Father, Grandfather and Great Grandfather. He loved all his Grandkids and Great Grandkids so much each of them was his hum dinger....we love you Pop and will miss you more then words can say. You are at Peace and better place reunited with your Mom and Dad and sister and Danny. Please send my love to my Dad and Brother and tell them how much I miss them.

Sincerely, Marc and Jan Miller

Posted at 01:14pm
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Posted at 07:53pm
I will truly miss Uncle Bob. I remember spending time at Uncle Bob's & Aunt Faye's house. One of the best times I had was going to Ohio to watch Uncle Bob trap shoot. He had the greatest smile & laugh. I will miss him so much, but you will forever be in my heart. Rest in peace.

Mark Robert Diefenderfer

Posted at 04:21pm
Pop will remain in our hearts forever.
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